The most frequent complaint with modern society is its growing emphasis on consumerism, looking to material possessions to create a satisfying life. The media, both print and online, focus on the glamourous nouveau riche lifestyle, where it's normal to spend $800 on a pair of shoes, $5000 on the "right" purse or six figures on a particularly desirable mechanical watch.The problem? This lifestyle is attractive to my age group as well, but with our average income, it's impossible to support such a lifestyle without going deep into debt.
The result of this is increasing insecurity, spending and debt for items we don't need. How do we break the cycle of confusing "need" with "want, magnified by social pressure"?
Rule 1: Focus on the Bare Necessities.
• Put yourself first. Make sure your necessities--rent, water, food--are covered.
• Save at least 10% of your income. There will always be surprises in life that hit you financially; a savings account will help make sure it doesn't ruin your month.
• Invest in health and dental insurance. A medical emergency shouldn't force you into bankruptcy. Neither should that tablet computer. Put your health first.
The money left after these expenses are met is your "splurge" fund and can be spent accordingly. No extra cash? Wait until next month to buy your gadget.
Rule 2: Research what you want to buy and make sure it's going to improve your life. And I don't mean enhance your social standing, I mean make a meaningful and lasting impact to your personal routine.
Not sure whether you need or want it after researching? Wait to buy it until you've saved up the purchase price. Then go shopping again and see if your item (car, phone, computer, whatever) still fits your needs, or if the desire has gone away. Sites like Amazon, eBay and Newegg can help you purchase smarter.
Rule 3: If you must have fashion, buy it right. The average person can't tell that you bought your designer purse secondhand and paid $200 for it instead of $2000. eBay, Amazon and Etsy are all great resources for clothing and accessories; your local Goodwill may also have a designer clothing boutique.
Most importantly, remember that buying later isn't a punishment; it's a completely guilt-free treat to yourself. You will be outwardly fabulous with a savings account balance to match. Life is so much better lived smarter.
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